Last year it took around 2 to 3 months before we noticed anything new or at least before Dave was ready to admit that something was happening. So, we fully anticipated have to do the same updates as last year, "no, nothing new, but it could take a while", every other day when someone asked. I always feel a little defensive when people ask these questions. I really want to tell them something spectacular, like "this morning he got out of bed and forgot to use his wheelchair. he was half-way to the bathroom before he realized it" or even more simply, "his butt started to itch . . . and he could feel it!" Unfortunately, it's usually just something small and I have to try to explain it in a big way. Then, there's always the disclaimer -- "even if something does come back, the muscles haven't been used in sooooo long . . . " You get the idea.
Well, this year I know most of you understand that there is some waiting time and I really haven't been asked about his progress much. We arrived home and like I said, took a few days to re-adjust. Then we had the Halloween festivities.
Dave got back to Physical therapy the following week. His parents stopped by on their way south for the winter and accompanied him on his appointments. I almost felt like reminding them before they left, not to expect too much . . . you know how parents can be, over-reaching and all . . . I'm glad I didn't though. I have learned over the years that I don't look particularly good with "egg on my face", nor do I handle being wrong very well (Dave is vigorously shaking his head to the affirmative -- "stop, you'll hurt yourself"). His first appointment after the procedure and already he noticed that tasks & excercises that were difficult to perform before were suddenly simply -- easy even. He has continued with therapy, 3 - 1 hour sessions a week, and is continuing to improve. . .
I thought about asking "will the miracles never cease?", but I realized -- no, they won't -- we have been living by our family motto -- "Faith is not beleiving that God can, it is knowing that he will" -- for nearly 3 years and now we can serve as a visualization to that faith!